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National Sex Ed Standards


Governor J.B. Pritzker has made one thing clear to the parents of Illinois. He thinks the government knows how to raise YOUR children the BEST! We’ve spent the better part of two years fighting his tyrannical mask mandates, but that was not enough for him. In August of 2021, Governor Pritzker Signs Two Bills Updating Sex Education Standards in K-12 Schools.

The new standards are modeled from the National Sex Education Standards and developed by progressive groups and require Children in K-2 to be able to “Define gender, gender identity, and gender-role stereotypes. Children in 3rd grade will be taught to define and explain the differences between cisgender, transgender, gender nonbinary, gender expansive, and gender identity. Explain that gender expression and gender identity exist along a spectrum.

However, there is a WAY OPT- OUT!

“No student shall be required to take or participate in any class or course in comprehensive personal health and safety and comprehensive sexual health education. A student’s parent or guardian may opt the student out of comprehensive personal health and safety and comprehensive sexual health education by submitting the request in writing. Refusal to take or participate in such a course or program may not be a reason for disciplinary action, academic penalty, suspension, or expulsion or any other sanction of a student.” (See 105 ILCS 5/27-9.1d)

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Note: These instructions are designed to assist parents/guardians in completing the foregoing notice.  It is not intended to offer legal advice, or to be an alternative to setting down with an attorney to discuss the matter in more detail should you have questions or concerns. 

1.) Submitting this notice invokes your lawful right to exempt your child from the comprehensive personal health and safety education or comprehensive sexual health education class or coursework.

2.) When completed, make two copies, sign and date each copy in ink.

3.) Proof of Service—Send the Opt-Out Notice to the school district by Certified Mail, Signature Requested (preferred method). Alternatively, it may be sent by any method whereby delivery can be confirmed. The school district’s signature serves as Proof of Service. You do no need nor are you asking for “agreement” or “authorization.” You only need proof that you delivered the Opt-Out Notice to the school.

4.) As a Second Proof of Service, take a completed notice to the school office. Ask the school secretary or school principal to sign and date; and/or to place the school “Received” stamp on both your copy of the notice as well as theirs. The Opt-Out Notice is an assertion of your legal rights and not an agreement. The signature from the school is not required to “validate” your demand. The school signature is only to serve as proof that the school was put on notice of your legal rights and that the violation of your rights could be legally actionable.

5.) Keep one copy (with proof of service) for your family and ask that the school keep a copy in your child’s school records (the cumulative file).

6.) While there is no express requirement in the law to resubmit the notice every school year, and the notice states it is perpetual, it may be prudent to resubmit it to your school district every school year just so they are clear of your position on the matter.

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